Ladies, what do you consider a date in ur opinion?

after i met this woman at a bar, we exchanged # then we met for drinks to get to know one another better, neither one of us texted that week, til we ran into each other at a bar, it was alittle wierd. then we talked more, then she texted me if i was available to do something friday, i said yea we can. we first got appetizers to eat then we went bowling it was alot of fun after i or she got a strike or spare we high fived which allowed us to hold one another hand for a few secs. after i dropped here off she told me to text her to let her know i got home which i did and she responded back. when should i text her again since we have gone out friday nite? is that a date or its just 2 ppl hanging out? is she interested in me or just using me? thanks kerry