I really need some help dealing with an alcoholic!?

Reading your question, I could not stop thinking about David Heloff.His daughter knew he was drinking heavily, and video taped him eating a hamburger, he was on the floor and totally wasted.It was shamefull.Alcoholics, sometimes do not realize they are alcholics.They feel they can stop when ever they want.Hard liquor is very damaging to the body and brain, my mother in law actually died from alcohol poisoning.He might get offended like my mother in law did,but If it were me, I would video tape him, at his finest hour, and when he sobers up, show him what he is doing to himself.Then get a third outside party, like his doctor, to help him.A doctor is well aware of alcolism and might be your best bet.Try ALANON,if he does not cooperate, that will give advice and help to those who care.